Wednesday, June 8, 2011

How To Be Alone


HOW TO BE ALONE by Tanya Davis

If you are at first lonely, be patient. If you've not been alone much, or if when you were, you weren't okay with it, then just wait. You'll find it's fine to be alone once you're embracing it.

We could start with the acceptable places, the bathroom, the coffee shop, the library. Where you can stall and read the paper, where you can get your caffeine fix and sit and stay there. Where you can browse the stacks and smell the books. You're not supposed to talk much anyway so it's safe there.

There's also the gym. If you're shy you could hang out with yourself in mirrors, you could put headphones in (guitar stroke).

And there's public transportation, because we all gotta go places.

And there's prayer and meditation. No one will think less if you're hanging with your breath seeking peace and salvation.

Start simple. Things you may have previously (electric guitar plucking) based on your avoid being alone principals.

The lunch counter. Where you will be surrounded by chow-downers. Employees who only have an hour and their spouses work across town and so they -- like you -- will be alone.

Resist the urge to hang out with your cell phone.

When you are comfortable with eat lunch and run, take yourself out for dinner. A restaurant with linen and silverware. You're no less intriguing a person when you're eating solo dessert to cleaning the whipped cream from the dish with your finger. In fact some people at full tables will wish they were where you were.

Go to the movies. Where it is dark and soothing. Alone in your seat amidst a fleeting community.
And then, take yourself out dancing to a club where no one knows you. Stand on the outside of the floor till the lights convince you more and more and the music shows you. Dance like no one's watching...because, they're probably not. And, if they are, assume it is with best of human intentions. The way bodies move genuinely to beats is, after all, gorgeous and affecting. Dance until you're sweating, and beads of perspiration remind you of life's best things, down your back like a brook of blessings.

Go to the woods alone, and the trees and squirrels will watch for you.
Go to an unfamiliar city, roam the streets, there're always statues to talk to and benches made for sitting give strangers a shared existence if only for a minute and these moments can be so uplifting and the conversations you get in by sitting alone on benches might've never happened had you not been there by yourself

Society is afraid of alonedom, like lonely hearts are wasting away in basements, like people must have problems if, after a while, nobody is dating them. but lonely is a freedom that breaths easy and weightless and lonely is healing if you make it.

You could stand, swathed by groups and mobs or hold hands with your partner, look both further and farther for the endless quest for company. But no one's in your head and by the time you translate your thoughts, some essence of them may be lost or perhaps it is just kept.

Perhaps in the interest of loving oneself, perhaps all those sappy slogans from preschool over to high school's groaning were tokens for holding the lonely at bay. Cuz if you're happy in your head than solitude is blessed and alone is okay.

It's okay if no one believes like you. All experience is unique, no one has the same synapses, can't think like you, for this be releived, keeps things interesting lifes magic things in reach.

And it doesn't mean you're not connected, that communitie's not present, just take the perspective you get from being one person in one head and feel the effects of it. take silence and respect it. if you have an art that needs a practice, stop neglecting it. if your family doesn't get you, or religious sect is not meant for you, don't obsess about it.

you could be in an instant surrounded if you needed it
If your heart is bleeding make the best of it
There is heat in freezing, be a testament.

Friday, June 3, 2011

Dream Lights Solar Powered Rechargeable Flickering Lamp

lookie what ViVianesque found! it's a welcome addition to her art studio!

from Fred & Friends-- Magical lights to brighten your night! This magic lamp will surely brighten your night and your spirits as well. As it gently winks and blinks until you'll fall asleep like a child to happy memories of glowing fireflies, warm summer nights, and lazy vacation days...enjoy!

draw an image of this unique jar of fireflies and journal about your nightly encounters with catching fireflies this summer! xoxo.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Lava Lamp


LAVA LAMPS ARE BACK FROM THE 60's!!
ViV has a treasured find!! It's a lovely fushia pink and purple!

Briton Edward Craven-Walker invented the lava lamp in 1960. The lamp contains a standard incandescent bulb or halogen lamp which heats a tall (often tapered) glass bottle containing water (often with glycerol derived additive) and a transparent, translucent or opaque mix of wax and carbon tetrachloride (although other combinations may be used). The wax is slightly more dense than water at room temperature but is less dense under warmer conditions. This occurs because wax expands more than water when both are heated. When heated, the wax becomes fluid, its relative density decreases, and blobs of wax ascend to the top of the device where they cool (which increases their density relative to that of the water's) and then descend. A metallic wire coil in the base of the bottle acts as a surface tension breaker to recombine the cooled blobs of wax after they descend. The underlying mechanism is a form of Rayleigh-Taylor instability. The bulb is normally about 25 to 40 watts. It may take 45 to 60 minutes for the wax to warm up enough to freely form rising blobs (depending on the original temperature). It may take 2 to 3 hours if it has been in a cold room for a long time.

Once the wax is molten the lamp should not be shaken or knocked over or the two fluids may emulsify and the wax/blobs will remain cloudy rather than clear. Some recombination will occur as part of the normal cycle of the lava in the container but the only means to recombine all of wax is to turn off the lamp and wait a few hours. The wax will settle back down at the bottom, forming one blob once again. Severe cases can require many heat-cool cycles to clear.

from Wikipedia

Monday, April 4, 2011

Gwen Stefani - Four In The Morning

Awake at four in the morning...what to do?? Art it up!! Go
and start a special creative art idea! Be sure to date it, too! Have fun! xoxo.


Saturday, March 12, 2011

Zentangle Zendoodle Art Play- Hand in Circle Mandala by Milliande

How to Grow a Mandala

The Mandala Blueprint

Inspiration ~ Mandala: Sanskrit word for Circle
In the Hindu and Buddhist religious traditions, their sacred art often takes a mandala form. The basic form of most Hindu and Buddhist mandalas is a complex abstract design that is usually circular in form, but the square type is created with four gates containing a circle with one identifiable center point, from which emanates an array of symbols, shapes and forms. Each gate is in the shape of a T.

Mandalas can contain both geometric and organic forms. They can also contain recognizable images that carry meaning for the person who is creating it. In essence, mandalas represent the connection between our inner worlds and outer reality. Creating these mandalas is inspirational and therapeutic.

These mandalas, concentric diagrams, have spiritual and ritual significance in both Buddhism and Hinduism. The term is of Hindu origin and appears in the Rig Veda as the name of the sections of the work, but is also used in other Indian religions, particularly Buddhism. In the Tibetan branch of Vajrayana Buddhism, mandalas have been developed into sandpainting. They are also a key part of anuttarayoga tantra meditation practices.


In various spiritual traditions, mandalas may be employed for focusing attention of aspirants and adepts, as a spiritual teaching tool, for establishing a sacred space, and as an aid to meditation and trance induction.

MANDALAS


I have been creating mandalas since November 2010! Take a peek at my very first mandala that I created on a wood panel! I was inspired by an exhibit that I stumbled over at the Armour Hammer Art Museum while in Los Angeles for my daughter, Dana's, official UCLA gymnastics visit!


Friday, March 11, 2011

sending you some 'em love...xoxo.



i send you love...xoxo.

Owl City - Fireflies

Catch Fireflies in a Mason Jar!

Most of us have fond memories of catching fireflies or lightning bugs on warm summer nights. Many people kept them in jars—sometimes a jar full of fireflies can produce enough light to read by. If you want to catch fireflies, here are a few tips that will help you along.

Where to Look


Fireflies are easy to spot—just look for the flashing lights. They typically love long grasses, marshy areas and regions near the edges of ponds, lakes, streams and other bodies of water. They can thrive under low-hanging trees, in forests and fields, and even in your yard or vegetable garden.

Watch Your Light

Fireflies communicate using their flashing lights. If you want to catch one, you have to act like one. First, turn off your exterior house lights—these may confuse fireflies and make them less likely to respond to light signals from other fireflies. Then take a flashlight outside.

If you are having trouble getting near the fireflies in your yard, imitate one of them by shining your flashlight directly up and down, or by repeating the light patterns you see fireflies emitting. This may or may not work; many scientists who study fireflies have better luck with LED lights than with battery-powered flashlights. Never shine a light directly at a firefly; it’s likely to scare them away rather than attracting them.

In addition, you may have better luck catching fireflies if you place a blue plastic disc or piece of paper over your flashlight to turn the light blue. Scientists believe fireflies don’t interpret blue light the same way they see other colors, so the light won’t disorient their flash patterns.

Catch Carefully

When you get close enough, catch your fireflies using a net. Place the fireflies you catch into a clear jar with a lid that’s been pierced to let in air. You should also place a moistened paper towel inside to keep the air in the jar humid. This way, your fireflies will have air to breathe and won’t dry out.

It’s often more effective to work in pairs when catching fireflies, with one person to hold the jar and another to use the net. Be sure to use care when catching them; fireflies can be fragile.

Let Them Go

Once you have a jar of fireflies, don’t keep them for longer than a day or two. Let them go, preferably at night because that’s when they’re most active and able to avoid predators. If you keep them for longer, the fireflies are likely to die.

Some people remember crushing fireflies in their fingers to make their hands glow and keeping them in unventilated jars for several days. While this might not have caused serious damage to firefly populations in times when they were more plentiful, today’s firefly numbers are dwindling—so each one matters. Catch fireflies carefully, treat them gently and release them into the wild again when you’re done, and you’ll be able to enjoy these fascinating creatures without causing any harm.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=psuRGfAaju4


Transformation of a Barn into an Art Studio!!


My dream is to transform a barn into an art studio! I am peeking left & right, up & down, diagonally, in circles, upside down, and in every which way to come up with when, where, what, and how to make my dream come true! I will paint it kelly green with chocolate brown and white highlights! The inside art studio will have chocolate browns, pinks, sky blues, and kelly greens! I would love to move back to my hometown, Alameda, California...BUT can I have a small barn in the backyard? That will be the question! Cross your fingers and hope that a place will cross my path! xoxo.

Welcome to ViVienne's gReen baRnhouse aRt giRlie giRL blog on this Eleventh March Madness Day of TwentyEleven!!


For two years to this day, this girlie girl has been dibbling & dabbling...hankering at springing up a blog! Sooooooo, on this Eleventh March Madness Day of TwentyEleven, ViViennesque has a gReen light to break the ice and fling forward her gReen baRnhouse aRt giRLie giRL blog!! WOWzers!! Finally! And she has Margarita Moesch to thank! Take a peek at Margarita's blogger blog to learn how to start your own blog! http://howtoblog-spot.blogspot.com/ Wait no more...take the plunge and DO IT NOW!! We all want to know what you are up to! xoxo.